The Ultimate Guide to Choosing Your Perfect First Dance Song
Welcome to the most magical moment of your wedding day—the first dance! It's the time when all eyes are on you and your partner, swirling around the dance floor to a song that perfectly captures your love story. As a professional wedding DJ company, we understand the significance of this moment, and we're here to help you pick a song that not only resonates with you but also creates an unforgettable experience for everyone present. Here’s how to find that perfect tune for your first dance.
Reflect on Your Relationship
Start by thinking about your relationship. Is there a song that’s been significant to you both during your time together? Perhaps there’s a track playing during a memorable date, or maybe you share a favorite artist. These personal connections can make a song choice deeply meaningful.
Consider the Lyrics
The lyrics of your first dance song are incredibly important. They should resonate with your feelings for each other. Take the time to listen closely to the words to ensure they reflect the sentiments you want to express on your wedding day. Sometimes a seemingly romantic song can have undertones that aren’t quite suitable for a wedding!
Decide on the Tempo
Think about how you want to feel during your first dance. Do you envision a slow, intimate dance, or something a bit more upbeat and fun? Your comfort and ability to dance to the song also matter. If neither of you are confident dancers, a slower tempo might be more suitable.
Consult Your DJ
Your wedding DJ or band can be a fantastic resource. We’ve seen countless first dances and can suggest songs that work beautifully. Additionally, we can help you determine if the song’s tempo and length are appropriate for the setting and if it needs any modifications to better suit the moment.
Try It Out
Once you’ve got a shortlist, take them for a spin—literally! Play each song and dance to it together. This practice can help you gauge how each song feels when you’re actually moving to it. It’s a fun and romantic way to make your decision.
Think About Your Guests
While the first dance is about you and your partner, consider how the song might resonate with your guests. Choosing a song that evokes emotions or shares a bit of your story can make the moment more touching for everyone watching.
Don’t Be Afraid to Be Unique
If you both have unique tastes in music, don’t shy away from picking a song that might be unconventional for a wedding. Your first dance song should be a reflection of you and your partner, not what tradition dictates.
Make It Your Own
Finally, remember that the first dance is your moment. Whether you choose a timeless classic, a modern hit, or an obscure indie track, the song should make you feel connected and in love. Don’t worry about pleasing everyone else. Focus on what feels right for you as a couple.
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At JAM Entertainment, we pride ourselves on helping couples create perfect moments through music. Your first dance is a once-in-a-lifetime spotlight, and we’re here to ensure the soundtrack to that moment is nothing short of perfection. Happy dancing!
With over 30 years of entertainment experience. Jerod Arreguini & his team feel honored to play a role in couples’ milestone celebrations, corporate events, private parties and much much more. Giving each wedding their all to produce a memorable day filled with great music mixing, fun, photo booths and incredible memories.
